Archive for September, 2010

September 25th, National Museum Day!

Monday, September 20th, 2010

Everyone knows how I’m always looking for inexpensive outings for my family. So when my dad told me about an article he saw in his local paper about a free day at the museum, I was over joyed. He suggested that I see if any museums in my area were going to be free too.

So I started my search on the web. It took a while to find what I was after but I finally found it: Smithsonian Magazine’s 6th Annual Museum Day, September 25th, 2010.  This website is full of helpful information about Museum Day.

  1. What museums are participating?
  2. How do I get in free?
  3. How many people can get in free?

What A List

I did a search for which museums in Oklahoma were participating in the Museum Day and found this list:

How does this work?

Ok, go to the Museum Day website. Fill in all the appropriate information and they will send you a link in your email. Make sure you are certain which museum you want to visit, you will have to specify during this process. Follow the link and print your ticket from your home printer. Fairly simple.

Wish you could take your whole family?

Well, this free ticket will get you and one other person into the museum for free. Everyone else will have to pay. But if you have small children, they may get in free. Check with the museum before you go.
We are heading to the Science museum. It’s my daughter’s favorite museum in town. Click here to see my review of the Science Museum of Oklahoma. Let us know how you spend your Museum Day.

My Mentor By Karla Charboneau

Tuesday, September 7th, 2010

Karla Charboneau

Well I promised that my next article would be about my mentor.  The fact of the matter is that I have several mentors. Let me tell you about them and why I choose them to follow.

3 Wonderful Mentors

The first mentor I had was a woman that I went to church with, her name was Betty.  At the time I was a very young wife and mother, about 18 years old. Betty taught a class that I went to and she just seemed like the perfect person to follow.  With patience and understanding she taught me so many things that I didn’t know, things like why writing thank you notes was important, what looking people in the eyes meant, how a mom could be soft spoken and still get the attention and respect of her children.  Every time I went to Betty’s house I always heard her greet people with, “please, come into my house.”  Everyone that found themselves in her home felt welcomed and wanted.

The next mentor I want to tell you about is my husband John.  This is rather hard for me to write because shamefully I have complained about him many times.  But I must give him credit for some of the wonderful things he has modeled for me.  This man has a sense of forgiveness like none I have ever seen.  He has an ability to think the best of others and to be hopeful in all circumstances that just blows me away at times.

There is a woman that is in my life right now that is a great mentor to me, I’m not sure that she knows that I see her that way but she is someone that I look to. Her name is Kim and she happens to be my boss. I see in her the grace that anyone I know longs to have in their lives.  She sees my mistakes in light of her own imperfections. She filters people’s failure through the incredible love and patience that she has received. She sees me for what I am and values me anyway.

A Perfect Mentor

That leads me to my most perfect mentor, He has many names but I just call Him Father God or sometimes Papa.  He has all the qualities the people I have previously mentioned have and so many more.  He teaches me what love is, how to get it and how to give it.  I learn from Him how to have patience for others and how to make others a priority without loosing myself.

He shows me just how much joy I bring Him and in return I feel that joy to share with others. His great forgiveness for me demonstrates his kindness and gentleness that I simply don’t deserve, and how can I have less for people in my life. It maybe hard to believe, (not) but there are moments that I just turn my back on people but not my Papa, He is always faithful and true to me beyond my wildest imagination.

How on earth does this relate to being a good parent?????  Well the fact of the matter is….You can’t give away what you don’t have. Hmmm. Where have I heard that before? Anyway the first step to being a good parent is to find yourself a good mentor and pattern your life after that person.  My best advise is when you look to people don’t expect them to be perfect, because you will be disappointed.  Accept the best from them and leave the rest behind giving them grace for their shortcomings. But always look to the perfect one for the best mentor.

My Best Interest

I have to ask myself why I choose these people to follow.  I think basically it is for one reason.  I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that they all had my best interest in mind. I never had to question or doubt their motives when it comes to me. Wouldn’t it be great if every child every where could say that of their parents. Maybe there would be less abuse, maybe there would be less rebellion, maybe there would be less hatred and violence, maybe we would be the peaceful people that we were intended to be.

Read more articles from Karla Charboneau: A Good Place to Start as a Parent

One of my favorite things: Pandora Radio

Thursday, September 2nd, 2010

Annabelle rockin to her favorite Pandora station.

Like most things in life the advice of a good friend led to an amazing discovery. When we moved from Tulsa in 2006, my friend Rebecca recommended that I check out a website that allowed a person to listen to music for free with limited commercials. At the time I wasn’t too interested in music that I didn’t already know. I had my CDs and NPR to keep me happy.

When my daughter was a baby we mainly listened to NPR. Let’s be honest,  though: it put her to sleep. Aaron listened to hip hop and claimed that Annabelle loved it. When she got old enough to start reciting some of the lyrics I said that was enough hip hop, too, and decided something needed to change.

That’s when I took Rebecca’s advice and checked out Pandora. Pandora is an internet radio that allows you to make your own stations–as many as you want. Of course they want you to buy the music they help you find, but you don’t have to buy anything. Apart from a 30-second commercial every four or five songs, the music is free.

My Advice for Using Pandora with Kids

I really recommend starting a station for your kids. If you have more than one child, you may want to start a station for each child, or you could have multiple stations for different types of music like one for lullabies, one for kids’ worship, and one for music from your child’s favorite TV shows or movies.

To start a station, click the Create a New Station button. Type in an artist’s name or a song that you may have heard your child sing. Or you can choose Find a Genre Station. The more suggestions you give for an individual station, the better the station will be at guessing what your little one wants to hear.

After you’ve made a station, listen to the music Pandora chooses. If you like a song, press the thumbs up button and it will keep playing music similar to that song. If you don’t like one, press the thumbs down button and it will not suggest music like that anymore. Some unwanted songs may creep up sometimes, but just thumbs down it and Pandora will skip to something else.

If you need help getting started figuring out what kind of music to look for, go to iTunes and search the children’s music there. At iTunes you will have access to a huge selection of music and you can preview a few seconds of each song. Unfortunately not all music on Pandora is available on iTunes yet.

My Favorite Music (for the kids) on Pandora

I’ve been doing all that for six months now, and I’ve developed some wonderful stations for my kids. I’ve also encountered tons of new artists I never would have run into without Pandora. Here are some of my favorites from the kids’ stations:

  • Yo Gabba Gabba!
  • Sesame Street
  • Justin Roberts
  • Renee and Jeremy
  • Frances England
  • The Laurie Berkner Band
  • Robert Bobert and the Bubble Machine
  • They Might Be Giants
  • Bare Naked Ladies

And so many more!

Sharing Your Stations

After you’ve made stations for your kids you will want to sing the praises of Pandora. Pandora has thought of that, too. When you’re playing a station you will see a button called options. Press options and then pick share this station with a friend. You can put in an email address and write a message explaining how great your station is.

You can also check out what your friends are listening to. Click on check it out under Friends’ Music. This will take you to a list of people you know who also listen to Pandora. You can view their most recent songs and see what their favorite artists and songs are. If you like what you see, click on the song and it will create a new station on your profile.

There are so many options on this website that bringing good music to your kids has never been easier. I highly recommend taking Pandora with you on your phone. We listen at home and in the car. It’s great on trips. It could be fun for your family to create a station for a certain trip. Make it a project for the whole family.